The Social Man

Ep 112: 3 Simple Steps To Get A Girlfriend

In today’s episode, we talk about how to make a woman obsessed with you.

(and of course, how to turn things around if she’s ghosting, flaky or if you’re friend zoned!)

This is one of our biggest episodes to date, and it’s for any single guy who wants a serious, long term relationship with one special girl.

What To Listen For:

Does money and status help you get women? — 4:50

  • What happens when you “have it all” but still feel insecure with women?

Why “pickup” doesn’t work. — 11:30

  • Lines, tricks, and other tactics get results, but are missing this one thing.

The secret obsession of millions of women. — 16:41

  • A strange book Christian discovered reveals what women secretly want.

How to get out of the friendzone. — 22:06

  • How Christian turned things around with this girl he had a major crush on (and how to do the same).

What to do when you’re ghosted. — 31:13

  • How to overcome neediness and stop dealing with flakes + the formula for turning things around.

How to become attractive to really beautiful women. — 36:29

  • Does this formula apply to tens?
  • How to do this even if you’re not good looking

Texting secrets to get her to send you naughty messages. — 52:11

  • Text messages that you can copy and paste to get r-rated with her.

What do you do if you run out of things to say? — 53:55

  • How to confidently talk to any woman and go from friendly to flirty to intimate.

Where to find a community of guys that can help you personally. — 58:02

  • There are beginners and experts in this group and they’re super supportive.

Why “Just Be Yourself” is awful advice. — 1:10:40

  • It’s a cop-out and an excuse to settle. Here’s Christian’s much more powerful alternative.

What to do if you’re an introvert? — 1:14:39

  • How to get women to approach you, and take the lead (surprise: many of them have fun with this).

The right time to go for a kiss. — 1:16:35

  • A little test to know if she’s ready for it, and how to go for it.

Can older guys date younger women? — 1:26:01

  • Why being older is actually an advantage for a lot of guys.